How to get women to chase you and other flirtingtips
This week, I want to talk about how
to let a woman know what she has to do in order
to seduce you and other flirting tips.
All women have a deep psychological need to feel
like they are seductive. Because of this woman want
to work at seducing you, you just have to let them know
what to do.
My buddy Captain Jack knows a lot of flirting tips and he Â first brought this up to me with
the idea of masculine-feminine statements. He used the
example of saying " I like Backrubs." If you say that to
a dude, it's kinda weird and he's probably not going to
be sure how to respond. He may even joke about how
you're not going to get a backrub from him.
However if you say " I like back rubs." to a woman who
is attracted to you and you used other flirting tips, more than likely, she's going to respond
by talking about how she gives great back rubs.
This is because she already is emotionally engaged
( attracted) and you are giving her flirting tips and a road map of what
she needs to do in order to get you.
This is like channeling all of those emotions that you
have already stirred in her body towards a common goal.
A great way to start to do this, is by using " I like girls who"
statements. An " I like girls who" statement is where you
take a quality or act you like in a woman and you bring up
how and why you like this.
"I like girls who are really independent. Like if a girl
totally takes charge of a situation or buys a guy a drink.
I think that's really hot"
Now, if I say this to a girlÂ who is already into me
at a bar 9 times out of 10 at some point that night,
she's going to offer to buy me a drink. At which
point I want to reward her for investing more in
the interaction and then pull back to make her
continue to chase and use other flirting tips.
Tune in next Monday when I'll wrap up this
four part series by talking about rewarding
pulling back and other flirting tips.
One of the most powerful Â flirting tips are
psychological triggers for
compliance is scarcity. This
is where take-aways come
into play. Once you have a
woman emotional ( High
"Buying Temperature") and
she has an idea as to how she
can seduce you or win you over,
it's time to do a take-away. That
means you're going to either
physically leave the interaction,
take-away your approval,
attention and validation.
Take-Aways are misunderstood,
it doesn't mean that you run out
of things to say and walk away.
It also doesn't mean that you
leave arbitrarily because you
think you need a take-away.
Take-Aways are one of many
ways to amplify attraction.
Imagine it from the woman's point
of view, she's met someone who is
cool and interesting and who has
gotten her emotionally responsive
and now at the height of the good
emotions he's leaving or neglecting
her. It would probably be pretty
hard to pay attention to anything
else until he came back, wouldn't it?
The best way to do a take-away is
to say you have to go find your friends,
and then walk away.Â Now if you're a
little more advanced, you may want
to throw in the element of jealousy
by talking to a group of girls within
the original girl's eyesight. This is a good flirting tips
what's called a jealousy plotline,
and is one of the keys to same night lays.
The last flirting tips I want to give you is that
take-aways even when being used
with jealousy plotlines, should never
last longer than 15 minutes.
Remember the point is to give
the woman the incentive necessary
to chase you sexually. As noted in
the book Why Women have sex after
love and competition( which is trigger
by jealousy plotlines as well) Jealousy
is the third most prevelant reason
women engage in sex.